There are surely time when each of us questioning our life, questioning what we are, what we going to do with our life. Where are we heading to? So many times then we would say what if i have done this that way or this way? An endless questions, an endless quest that is really tiring and if we can not find the answer of what we really are then we are bound to go for a long long tiresome quest. Thank God if we make it through and come out winning, finding the true meaning of our existence, the true calling of our being. That will be a victorious journey. But sometimes its not about being a victorious end but simply about get to the other end of your journey save and sound, satisfied, older and wiser :) knowing that you are alive and that you are Happy being alive.
Just now i am writing to a question in a group post on one of the group i joined about women. This girl asking for opinions and advice about her life and how she should go with it. She is asking what if she stops what she is doing now which is pursuing for her Phd and makes her family and friends happy and proud of her. Now what if she stops doing that? Will they still be as happy and as proud as they are now seeing her pursuing her Phd. Another case, her ex bf cheated on her and now she is starting new relationship and worries of what if this guy also lie? What if he too will hurt and leave her brokenhearted? Should she loves him still and find out or should she leave him and be on her own.
Those what if question tends to kill us silently since we usually use it in a negative terms to describe of things that we are afraid of. Just wonder how bout we use that in positive terms to describe things that we will regret if we are not doing it :) Sometimes those what if just brings us further from our happiness. Lets just live it one day at a time and live it to the fullest!
Medan, January 24, 2012
Life is a struggle worth to fight for
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